An In-Depth Self-Care Exercise
Noticing What Restores You
Go deeper into the question: “What do you have to say no to?”
Saying no is not the final goal. It is a way of creating room to say yes to something that genuinely supports your wellbeing.
In this research-informed activity, you will notice what drains and restores your energy, protect time for one small self-care practice, and gather personal evidence about what actually helps you.
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Part 1
Notice for 3 days
Rate your starting point and record moments that drain and restore you.
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Part 2
Protect one practice
Choose a realistic self-care practice and make room for a seven-day experiment.
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Part 3
Reflect after 7 days
Return to consider what changed in your energy, wellbeing, and sense of control.
Before you begin
Self-care does not need to be expensive, impressive, or time-consuming. It might mean sleep, movement, quiet, time outdoors, creativity, prayer, a nourishing meal, a meaningful conversation, counseling, or a clearer boundary. The purpose is to discover what actually helps you—not to complete an ideal wellness checklist.
